So if you’re prone to over giving and finding yourself burnt out come new years eve, we’ve pulled together some of our best big sister advice to keep you feeling fabulously festive throughout. Here we go!
To be blunt, we mean just say no when something doesn’t work for you darlings. It doesn’t matter how big or small, you might be saying no to hosting for another year, agreeing a budget for spending or simply just not going to the pub so you can get snuggled up with a film and hot chocolate instead. Don’t feel guilty, this is your holiday too.
Relaxxxxxx, throw away the shame and the negative self talk (for good but especially now) and just let yourself genuinely enjoy the festive feasting. Your worth is far beyond what you weigh, so it doesn’t matter if you gain a few pounds, you’re still going to be absolutely gorgeous. Celebrate your heart out baby!
This won't be the first time you’ve heard this suggestion we’re sure, but the festive season is a totally perfect opportunity to put the phone down for a few days and really surrender to soaking up the memories being made with your nearest and dearest. What you have is perfect, stop yourself from comparing it to others.
As we said, this is a time of giving - but that can be downright exhausting can’t it? So as part of those boundaries we were talking about, make sure one of them is setting time aside to give back to yourself! This might be having a long soak in the bath (obvs our go to!), reading a few chapters of your book, doing some yoga - anything! But this is your ultimate key to thriving this Christmas.
This year is a weird one we know, lots of us will be adapting traditions and having smaller gatherings. If you’re missing some of your usual yuletide tribe try writing them a letter or cute card! It’s a beaut way to spend time honouring your own emotions whilst getting to send some real, genuine, juicy love their way. Plus, we’re all sick of zoom calls now aren’t we?
Chocolate advent for breakfast? Yes please! But don’t forget to nourish your body from the inside out this month. Try to squeeze some vitamin rich foods alongside the fizz and roast potatoes. You’re mind, body and soul will thank you for it!
It’s going to be super easy to try and rush out the end of this year with everything that has made 2020. But try not to. Take a step back and reflect on this year with a new lens, you’ve made it this far, so there must have been sparks of joy and laughter in there. Make note of each and every one, say a huge thank you for them and see them return tenfold next year.
And what are we grateful for? Well it's you of course!
We want to wish you a very merry Christmas lovelies, and thank you SO much for supporting our independent business when it’s been tough for so many of you. Hopefully Miss Patisserie has been some fizzing, fun relief when you’ve most needed it.
If this year has taught us anything it’s that self care is integral to staying grounded and enjoying life no matter what is happening around us. Self care is our heart and soul, seeing so many people resonate with it’s benefits and beauty has really had this little team's hearts singing!
Expect all of that positivity and love to be poured into our most special year yet. 2021 has got a lot in store for you loves, and we’ll be right there with you.
Lots of Love,
Miss Patisserie xx